why shouldn't I at least give it a try?

Hey everyone. I'm 21M from Andhra, currently working in Bangalore.

I'm an introvert and I've never been in a relationship. I've never kissed anyone, held someone's hand romantically, or had any physical intimacy with anyone. I've always wanted my first relationship to be with the person I eventually marry.

So I'm looking for a girl who feels similarly. I would prefer someone who hasn't had a previous relationship or physical intimacy either. I know that's a very specific expectation, but it's important to me because I've chosen the same for myself. If I expect something from my future partner, I believe I should be willing to follow that standard myself too.

I'm Muslim, and I'm definitely looking for something with marriage in mind. I'm not looking for something casual or temporary.

A little about me:

21M, from Andhra, currently working in Bangalore

Introvert

I play cricket and love watching cricket 🏏

I weirdly watch a lot of old Hollywood love stories ❀️

Physical attraction matters to me too. I'd like my partner to be good-looking, around the same level as I am πŸ˜­πŸ˜‚, and I believe attraction should be mutual.

I value loyalty, honesty, affection, respect and equal effort.

I'm not expecting someone perfect because I'm definitely not perfect either. I just want someone whose important values and expectations are compatible with mine.

And honestly, I know this is probably a long shot. I don't expect to magically find my future wife through a Reddit post. πŸ˜‚ But I've thought about it and wondered, why shouldn't I at least give it a try?

If you're someone who relates to this and you're also looking for something serious, feel free to DM me. Maybe we're both looking for the same thing without knowing it. :)

Posted Sep 8, 2026, 11:35 AM UTC

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