29M, married, Delhi NCR India— curious about married women’s adventurous side

I’m 29, married, live in Faridabad (Delhi NCR, India), and work from home. I’ve been wondering about something lately and figured Reddit might be the right place to ask.
For married women who have been in long-term relationships, do you ever find yourself craving something different or a little more adventurous outside the usual routine?
I’m curious what actually attracts you — is it attention, flirting, emotional connection, chemistry, someone’s personality, confidence, or simply the excitement of doing something unexpected?
Also, does age matter when you’re attracted to someone outside your marriage? Do you generally find yourself drawn to guys around your age, older men, or younger men?
Not looking to judge anyone — genuinely curious to hear from women about what they actually think and feel, rather than the assumptions people usually make. 🙂