Is it okay to not take yumeshipping "seriously"?

I find many people here [and there is nothing wrong with it!] being extremely serious about their f/os. Making big shrines, making artwork, always interacting with their f/os media, etc. However I find I don't really do that? Sure I have a shrine but its really mini, it'll probably grow as I now have more f/os but I don't plan nor want to have it be as massive as other peoples. I draw artwork sure but most of it is drawing over bases, I will need to practice drawing more and this will be a good way to do so. Obviously I interact with my f/os media a lot, but most of the time my f/o isn't my favourite character out of that media, so it'll be me looking at the franchise as a whole, seeing my f/o, being really exited and its mainly just that.

Do I have to do all these things to be considered a yumeshipper or can I just say "yeah I have fictional wives" and be considered one? Sorry for the possibly stupid question