How to set sexual boundaries/prevent genital inspection

Hello,

So I made a post a couple days ago and really appreciate the advice I got. What I realized my fear really is is not the structure but my fear of its interpretation.

How do I prove to a guy that I don't do things like clitoral stimulation? I don't want a man to try searching for that part. I have removed glans but the structure around it couldn't go away no matter cutting amount. I'm worried that I will be treated like I am a girl with a clit just because I have excess skin