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CosmicSpectr

Need advice from you all.

Advice

Hey !

So I'm a bisexual guy who has given many oral pleasures to men but since a long time I wanted to try bottoming. I'm a virgin and I really want to give it to someone. So I posted an ad about it and I got many DMs obviously ! Then I took my time and filtered most of them. After a while I got in touch with a guy who's well built, hung and he really seems like a genuine and nice person. He also doesn't want to rush me into it. He wants to take me out on a date first and spend some time with me, so that I can get comfortable with him.

After that date he wants me to decide whether I really want to do it with him or not. If I say yes...then he wants to book a really good hotel with me, then he wants me to wear a really hot girl's outfit and then eventually he wants to spend the whole night with me.

So guys, the thing is...this is my first time bottoming and i want to enjoy it to the fullest. And honestly, more than myself, I don't want to disappoint that person because he really is a nice person and I genuinely want to give my virginity to that guy only.

He already told me that he's very dominating in bed and he'll lead the way but as a bottom...I don't just want to lay there ! You know what I mean ? Give me suggestions on how can I seduce him...relax him...or make the night special for him !

He has a 7.5 inch + cock and that's the part I'm most scared of. Please give me tips on how to take it all in without much pain.

I want to make it a special night for him and also for me ofcourse ! So please tell me anything I should know about beforehand. Any kind of tips, suggestions, advice would be appreciated.

Thank you so much guys in advance !🥹

Posted Sep 8, 2026, 11:51 AM UTC

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