Men will never understand the female experience on Bumble.

Let's put the shoe on the other foot for a minute. You're an average man in your mid 20's. You have an average job, average body, average personality, average everything.

You create a profile and are bombarded by messages from attractive women (the type you see on IG and TT). At any other point in history, you'd never have access to women like this. They offer to buy you dinner and have crazy, hot sex with you all night. You stay on the dating apps and have a lot of fun for a few years.

But then it becomes routine. You rant on how women do nothing creative for you and how the "bar is in hell". You begin to resent women and complain about how "dating is hell for men in 2026".

Let all this sink in for a minute.