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spoiledxseraph

31 [F4M] Baltimore - Needy brat looking for her long term Daddy

NSFWF4M Maryland

I'm a 5'3, curvy/chubby, black woman in Maryland. I have dyed hair and tattoos. I'm more alternative and love metal music. Banter and sarcasm are my unofficial love language

Vanilla: Politically left. Into metal, pop punk, Midwest emo and K-indie. Painting, karaoke, sketching, anime, kdrama and video game lore.

Non vanilla: spankings, hair pulling, impact, scratching, gagging and more. Interested in throat training, anal training, orgasm denial/forced orgasm, shibari, etc.

Hard limits: Race play, gaping, permanent marks, punching/kicking, scat, vomit, and diapers, age play, anything illegal.

Looking for a soft dom/dd:bg/brat wrangler, eventually to go into a 24/7 dynamic with someone very experienced and able to give me what I need. I don't want a fwb or ons. I want someone serious and genuine. Communication and consistency are very important and non-negotiable. I'm clingy and pouty, if you don't like that then I'm not the brat for you. I crave structure and rules. I love to push boundaries and get rewarded for doin so~

I'd also appreciate if we had things outside of kink in common.

You: 25-45 years old. Politically left and nerdy. Taller than me and live in Maryland/Baltimore/DMV area. Open to certain parts of Pennsylvania. Very familiar with this dynamic and experienced. Established and dominant. Able to give me attention. Bonus points if you know computers/keyboards and how to build them.

Not looking for anyone poly or that has children.

If any of this interests you, feel free to message me and tell me what about my post interested you and what you're lookin for! Hope to hear from you~

Posted Sep 8, 2026, 4:57 PM UTC

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