How do I find my people?
I've just become a freshman, and to be honest, I expected something different. I feel completely lost socially, even though university only started 2 days ago. I had already befriended a few people beforehand, so a group formed, but they aren't the kind of people I can genuinely connect with. It's not easy for me to find the same kind of weirdos as me, and it's making me feel a bit depressed. On top of that, I live in a dorm, so I have to travel home on Thursday evenings when the partying usually happens. Since I have things to do at home on Fridays, I probably won't ever be able to go to those either. What should I do in a situation like this?
What keeps my spirits up is knowing that I'll be focusing on my studies anyway, and of course, believing that the person I truly connect with will eventually find me. I'm having a hard time dealing with homesickness. Does anyone have any advice?
Posted Sep 8, 2026, 4:57 PM UTC