38 - M4F - #Virginia - Fit and Smart, Looking for the same
Had a few nearly successful experiences, but one or two factors from either party has stopped any progress so still on the hunt, if you're out there. For the record, yes I'm real, and can send a verification picture upon request, if we decide to talk and pursue this. I repost the same thing frequently because it says it all and yes, I like to get new eyes on my posts. That being said, here's the rest:
I'm looking for someone who seeks a good old fashioned connection, wants to be excited to text and video chat their person, share everything from memes to selfies, banter and talk shit or talk about more intellectual things. I appreciate someone who takes care of themselves in the gym and kitchen, as ideally we'd meet up and I enjoy being active, the outdoors. I want to hear about your day, your gripes, your excitement, like when you first started dating and were talking to your person about everything and anything.
I don't have chemistry with my partner anymore, and a dead bedroom has turned into a dead, well, everything. I miss having a connection with someone, one that translates from the emotional and intellectual to the sexual side. I'd like to cultivate something like that with someone new, and I'm not looking to change anyone's situation. I want to start things slow and really get to know one another, I like learning about what makes someone unique, an individual. I will say though, as with any situation, I do believe physical attraction is important so I'd like to exchange pics early. I have been told I'm conventionally attractive even if I'm not everyone's type.
A little about me:
Physically: tall, muscular and athletic build. I do enjoy fitness and take care of myself, have been told I'm conventionally attractive. I preface the physical because I know that's important to most, and I also prefer someone who values the same in taking care of themselves through fitness and overall life health.
I believe I'm well educated, I have a few degrees under my belt. I am a bit of a reserved individual and book nerd, preferring to read on a night in than go out and party. Avid outdoorsman, as I like to hunt, backpack, and take trips into the wilderness frequently. That being said, I can be a big homebody as well. I enjoy cinema, movies off the beaten path, cult classics, independent films that may have been missed by most. Sarcastic and dry sense of humor all over, but quirky, weird to some. I'm currently teaching myself how to code.
If you think we'd hit off, I'd love to hear from you. I won't waste your time if we talk and I'm not interested, as we all have our unique preferences. Trust me, I'm tactful about it. I'm not for everyone either. Also, I don't mind if you have kids and aren't just married.
*notabot
Posted Sep 8, 2026, 4:59 PM UTC