26M - Deep convos about life while discussing when a jar becomes a box? I'm here!
Heyya!
Just your average Singaporean guy who has lived in Sweden for the greater part of my life. Confused and, quite honestly, lost in life, I find myself having difficulties going OUT and meeting friends. Hence why I am here searching for an online friend! I'm looking for someone to ultimately send voice notes to, be on a call while we each do our own things, essentially be able to feel a presence during these lonely days, while not expecting to be more than who I am right now. A no-pressure connection where we share what we want to share, and otherwise just let each other know we are here ~
===== Quick summary about myself =====
I always try to make it comfortable for people to open up, enjoying making other introverts like myself feel like it's a safe space to yap about the most random of things~ I enjoy the talks that end up in us contradicting our own beliefs and making us rethink perspectives. I also enjoy just pondering about what life would be like in 100 years and how jealous I might be while trying my best to live a life I won't regret right now.
I'm a gamer who loves horror games (and movies!) like Alien Isolation, Evil Within (1 & 2), and the Outlast series! My all-time favourite video game is Disco Elysium, with Red Dead 2 coming in a close 2nd!
I also enjoy playing the guitar, writing stories, cooking, and learning new languages! Currently able to speak Swedish and English fluently, getting by in Chinese and Spanish, and a beginner in Korean while learning Russian and French!
Have found my love for reading again! My favourite books are The Alchemist, The Five People You Meet in Heaven, Flowers for Algernon, and 1984. The most recent book I finished was The Picture of Dorian Gray, and now looking into reading Crime and Punishment~
===== Don't know how to start a convo? =====
Some questions you could answer as starters!
- Flying or teleportation as a superpower, and why?
- Immortality: yes, no, why?
- When does a jar become a box?
- When do you feel seen?
- Thing you enjoy that others might find weird?
PS: Also wouldn't mind joining a DnD group if anyone has... kinda interested, and I think socializing would be healthy for my introverted soul. I do enjoy being uncomfortable (as long as I don't make other people uncomfortable 😅).
Looking forward to hearing from ya! And if we don't, thanks for reading until now and have an amazing day ahead!
Posted Sep 8, 2026, 5:00 PM UTC