29 [M4M] Soft dom looking for slave/pup for serious long term #Europe
Hello, I'm a soft Dom top, average masc guy (tall and lean), 29 years old from Norway. I'm highly educated, with various nerdy interests within the fields of reading, games, fantasy, music, academia and so on.
I'm looking for a submissive bottom slave/pup who genuinely and seriously want to find someone for a kinky, serious, committed relationship and dynamic, and live the slave/pup play lifestyle with me as their owner. I want to create a strong and deep dynamic based on open communication, trust, common interests and shared desires for this type of lifestyle. You would have to be comfortable with devoting yourself to your owner, and as a partner.
As for preferences, I like all types of guys and ages, although I want someone who is legal (obviously), single (not married or in an open relationship) and mature enough to understand what this potential dynamic is about, and is motivated to give it a try and explore all the great things it has to offer. While I don't mind chatting online at first to get to know each other and establish baselines, I do want something that can evolve into a real life situation at some point in the future. Therefore you would have to be located within Europe, a similar timezone, or be willing to visit/relocate at some point.
While not an extensive list, these are some of my main kinks that I'm actively looking for and expecting in this type of dynamic. There are very likely more that I can't think of at the top of my head right now.
Kinks: Dom/sub, pup play, slave play, roleplay, raceplay, worship play, hypno, multiple subs, bdsm, feet, age difference, toys.
As for my limits, these are hard limits that are not up for negotiation
Limits: scat, blood, extreme violence, feminization.
Low effort messages will be ignored, as I want to get to know who I'm talking to (sending just age or “hey” is not a great conversation starter). If this interests you, and you have read this far, feel free to send me a DM!
Posted Sep 8, 2026, 5:01 PM UTC