Today is her birthday. Do you think I should wish her a happy birthday?

In short, I met a girl who was about my age. We talked about many topics and issues, shared our feelings and future plans, and she expressed her admiration for me. I noticed that she held certain beliefs that I tried to discuss with her, but she refused to listen to me. I advised her to join a live stream with a group of women on TikTok to discuss these issues in more depth.

A day later, she told me she had downloaded the TikTok app for reasons related to this topic, but she had started to feel attracted to other young men on the app. I replied: “I’m deeply disgusted by you,” and it ended in an argument and her blocking me. She turned the whole thing against me. As for me, I’ve moved on. But I noticed she liked my recent posts and sent me a message wishing me a happy birthday.

Tonight is her birthday, and I feel like I should let go of the past, congratulate her, and move on. At the same time, I also feel the need to forget her completely.