44 [M4F] - Married and ENM, looking for a new BFF

u/notbestbutprettygood

Hi there Reddit!

I’m 44, married and open for the last 8 or so years. I’d love to find a new online BFF. I value the vanilla relationship just as much as the dirty, and I much prefer an ongoing connection. Compassion and empathy are key, and connection is critical.

As the title suggests, I have a ton of hobbies/interests, and I’m always looking for more of them. Some of them are cooking, cocktails, whiskey, DIY, woodworking, working out. I love movies/film, books and music is life.

I’m conventionally attractive, my celebrity dopplehanger is Harvey from suits. Im definitely not a narcissist attorney though.

Ideally I’d like to find a stable partner, I can be monogamous in my non monogamy. My wife is aware and she does her own thing as well. If this sounds interesting, shoot me a note!