Idk what to do

Ive been with my (cis) gf for 3 years Both in our 20s She told me she was pansexual and didnt care that im trans when we first started dating Sex has been good, but one sided I use a strap on, mouth, hands, whatever But she never touches me back To this day I have never finished from another person I have brought it up many times, and finally I find out its because she just straight up doesn't like pussy I have no intention of getting surgery But everything besides sex is great and I dont know what I would do if we broke up But those are my choices Break up and miss her for the rest of my life Or stay together and watch my 20s, 30s, etc fly by and never know what its like to be touched by someone who is actually attracted to me If anyone else has been in a similar situation or has any advice, I appreciate it