Feeling lost and too late to do anything

Need to talk...

The thing is i feel like i have the same speech every year, do i even evolve or change ? I’m 22yo now, i’m failing uni i hate what i’m studying i don’t have a job or a drivers licence, i’m the eldest of my siblings and i’m setting a bad example and i still don’t know what i want to do in life, i have some hobbies and i’m well surrounded : i spend a lot of quality time with my family and i have few close friends, but i can’t just stay happy around them without moving forward, i feel stuck, in the same loop, playing video games watching animes spending time with my loved ones, a happy loop but with no studies no income, absolutely nothing, also with the combo of wearing a hijab in france and having no experiences to add on my resume i guess that’s why i’m struggling to get a job but still, i just need idk motivation ? Purpose ? Goals ? I don’t really know, would that actually change anything ? I’m not really looking for answers idk if there’s any, i guess i just wanted to let that out. I just feel too old to start anything, i’m still stuck in the same major that i don’t like bc it’s « easier » and i don’t think i found another type of studies that i’d like to do, a dumb thing to add; i started getting interested in pokemon since i’ve been getting a lot of pokemon pack openings and stuff related to that on my fyp but then i just kept telling myself that i’m too old and too late, ppl start collecting at a young age not at 22 i mean anyways idk where i was getting with that i just keep comparing myself to friends or old classmates or just my younger cousins that already achieved so much more and even tho my parents seem supportive and don’t pressure me too much i just can’t shake the feeling that i’m lacking in many areas and i don’t know what to do

Thank you if you read allat and sorry for any mistakes or bad wording

Posted Sep 8, 2026, 5:03 PM UTC · locked

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