Recently came out as bi (again) and dating as a trans man is HARD π₯²
Long story, but I came out as ftm young and spent a long time dating cis girls. Then in college after I'd known I was bi and told most people I'm bi, I started hooking up w guys. And I held off from t4t cause it seemed to be a doomed situationship either way. But after being gay and back in another closet, I'm interested in girls again. So ig I'm looking for casual chats, friends and more right now.
I'm post top surgery and hormones since 2020. I'm 23y/o and I'm intimidated by dating for sure but I'm willing to meet new people. So my DMs are open to any curious cuties on this sub that wanna slide
π―ππ I get along w people of all genders but I am a true switch and only mesh w sexy partners if they can work them switches ;)
My turn offs are doms that feel forced, injurious activities (tho I have some pain kinks), most drugs (I'm cali sober), and I don't like mean people.
My turn ons (wow you're soooo curious π)
- petplay (it's versatile really) and pet names
- daddy kink (& mommy when I'm submissive)
- breeding (in a trans or gay way)
- flipping/switching
And if you're still reading, you should know:
- I like getting notifications, message me anything
- consent is not optional
- communication is key
- I like to get my way ;)
Posted Sep 8, 2026, 5:04 PM UTC