45 [M4F] #DFW #TX looking to sweep a woman off her feet

NSFWDallas

I know this may be a longshot, but I won't know if I don't take a chance to see if she exists. I am not new to this at all, having made connections before with amazing women. However, sometimes the connection is only meant to be short term - though it is draining when you put so much into something only for it to go that way. But it happens in this lifestyle.

As the title says, I am a 45 year old man in the DFW area and I am looking for a woman that wants to be swept up off her feet....or potentially needs to take a ride of a lifetime. I am \*notabot and have been married for over 10 years, which has been a great adventure, but over time, things have gone stale. There isn't as much of a spark and enticement that was once there, and hence, I am here to find that spark again, bringing back a new enjoyment in life. In no way am I looking to change things for either of us, but the hope and focus would be to add to each other's lives, bringing an excitement to when checking our phones, sharing photos or even the times we get to share in person (once we get there).

A little more about me before I go into who/what I am looking for as to give you all an understanding of what you are getting yourself into should you have an interest in connecting. I am Caucasian, stand 5'11, have short brownish hair, hazel green eyes, short well-groomed facial hair, tan, and athletic average build. I am very active and always striving to stay as healthy as I can be, but I am happy in my body and skin as it is right now. Any changes that come are just improvements, and I own them as they come. I have some tattoos. I do have that country vibe, believing in doing everything I can and not minding it if I get dirty. Also the fact that I am a gentleman, always having manners and treating others with the utmost respect. But something you may not know from the cover of seeing me is that I am also very much a Dom and have a high libido. I have a lot of experience in this and bring a lot to the table that could be tapped into or explored. I am a father and have a love for animals. I love traveling, cooking, playing video games, learning new things, watching movies, anything to do with music, as well as everything to do with outdoors and nature. I will bring a lot of great times and steer clear of the boring ones.

As far as what I am looking for, I will begin with that I am not here for games, ghosting, paying for connection, or anything of the sort. I want real connection and effort put into whatever can come. I believe in open & honest communication, consistency, effort, and someone who can talk/explore whatever is to come outside of the usual 9-5pm. Now, with that said, I will say that family always comes first. I don't expect 24/7 conversation, but I do want consistency, and if we know we will be busy, we communicate that to each other at the best we can. Yes, things can swing quickly, and you are just in it and can't get back. Do what we can when we can. Just don't go completely silent for more than two days. And please, if feelings or such change, communicate. Don't ghost. I won't do it, so I would expect anyone who to connect with doesn't do it either.

I am looking for that one person who take care of themselves mentally, physically, and socially. Now, I don't expect someone to be tiny, but I do like someone who is healthy and fit/active. I like curves, so if you have that and are also fit, then you get it. I am not looking to jump amongst multiple people, I want to give my attention to one. But I need someone who isn't afraid to jump in and wants to get to know each other on a deeper level. Now, that doesn't mean that we have to move fast - quite the opposite, as I appreciate the slow burn. I want to build and develop a foundation together that allows us to be friends as well as more. We are ultimately here to fill the voids, and that has to be something we both need and want. I want someone who has a great personality, shares common interests, is open-minded, spontaneous, is a submissive, wants to try new things, etc... I want someone who can live on their own but wants to share things with someone who will respect and appreciate them.

So if this appeals to you, please reach out. I would love to hear from you. I really want to go on a journey and build something great for us both to make our lives even better. And if you do reach out, please make a real effort in your response.

Posted Sep 8, 2026, 5:05 PM UTC

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