Im so stressed

I’m a 26-year-old male, and she’s a 23-year-old female. Last year, around January–February, I started talking to her. She’s from Gurgaon, Haryana. I was honestly stupid enough to get attached after just two months and even left my job in Mumbai to move to Gurgaon because I thought we were serious about each other. But as soon as I moved there, her behavior completely changed. She stopped making an effort to meet me, started disrespecting me, sometimes even verbally abusing me, and kept bringing up her past trauma whenever we talked about anything serious. I eventually felt extremely suffocated, quit the job, and moved back. We stopped talking around the end of September, and I blocked her on her birthday.
Then in February this year, she randomly texted me asking where I was and eventually suggested that we meet. I told her I was in Indore and would let her know when I came to Delhi. Fast forward to September, I came to Delhi on the 2nd. She said we’d meet on the 4th, so I got ready and made plans, but then it started raining and she cancelled. The next day she said we’d meet the following day, but again said she couldn’t come because of waterlogging and that even a cab couldn’t reach. On the 6th, it was literally sunny, but she still had another reason why she couldn’t come. When I told her it feels like she doesn’t actually want to meet me, she turned it around and said, “If I didn’t want to meet you, why would I ask to meet you?” At this point, I’m genuinely confused. Am I overthinking this, or does it sound like she’s clearly avoiding meeting me? What would you guys make of this situation?