Relationship or Marriage Weight Gain Realizations

Hi. I’d love to hear some stories about people (male or female are both fine) who have had a realization that they had been gaining weight in a relationship or in their marriage. I’d love to hear how much they weighed originally, how the relationship was going and how they maybe did not know they were gaining, what happened that caused them to discover that had gained and how much it was.

I know it is pretty easy to gain some happy weight when love strikes, especially if the partner is perhaps a little bigger as well. But I’d love to hear about it and hear if the partner brought up that they might be gaining, some weigh in where it came to light, etc.