I think I’m really into the caring dom dynamic

I’ve been thinking about this a lot lately, and I’m starting to realize how specific my fantasy is.
I want someone who’s dominant and confident, but still really soft and caring with me. I want that contrast between feeling completely dominated and still feeling safe, wanted, and cared for.
I’m 21, and I’m especially attracted to the idea of him being around 17 years older than me.
I also love the idea of him constantly kissing me and calling me “Dove.” For some reason, that little detail makes the whole fantasy so much more intense for me.
I also have this fantasy about getting into an argument with him and having all that tension between us turn into something passionate afterward.
There’s honestly so much more in my head that I don’t know how to describe or put into words.
Does anyone else have a thing for the soft/caring dom + age gap combination?