Everytime things are looking up, I get slashed back down.

I’m distraught. We had our FTD w/ poly 2 weeks ago. I JUST found out that he didn’t comply with a control question, and failed Every. Single. Question.

He admitted to two (smallish) things at the end. Results were “inconclusive”.

His therapist lied and said he was good to go. He then disappeared that night for an hour. He had an explanation that I trusted.

Well 10 days after his disappearance, he now has a rash on his genitals. I didn’t see it until AFTER we resumed sexual activity.

Finding out about the poly, and the rash, has me sick to my stomach.

After note: we established that he has herpes and gave it to me during initial testing in January. He’s using that as his reason for not seeking medical care for his rash.