What’s the red flag that you ignored while dating?

Things are not good and its my fault. It has made me think about the red flags that my wife shouldn’t have ignored. Things I was honest about (like my porn struggles) and other things. I guess you don’t see it when you are in love. And while I can’t blame religion for it all it can sometimes be bad to think that the message of grace can be used to forgive and forget when you shouldn’t. and it can make you not hold on to your boundaries. what red flags did you ignore?