I have been overcome with limerence for the past year and a half. I asked for his details to populate his birth chart (he didn't know time) but from what I know is:  
I have Scorpio sun (26 degrees) Scorpio mercury (29 degrees) in my 3rd house and Scorpio Venus (0 degrees retrograde) in my 2nd house.  
Now he has Scorpio sun (9degrees) Scorpio Juno (12 degrees) and Scorpio Lilith (28 degrees\*).  
Our conversations feel so intense, slightly taboo, and boundary breaking.  
He has O degrees\* Sagittarius Mercury and I have my south node in Sagittarius.  
He has Mars (20 degrees) , Venus (1 degrees), Pluto (3 degrees), and Uranus 19 degrees) in Libra and I have a mars (21 degrees) and Juno (27 degrees) in Libra.  
Also I have a Lilith Aries (20degrees) in my 8th house and he has his Chiron in Aries (14 degrees retrograde)  
Interestingly, he had a Virgo moon and I have a Virgo rising.  
I just want to know if he feels as intensely as I do? We have an age gap but I've definitely been more intense.  
When we interact we both make very intense eye contact, he looks me up and down and watches me carefully. Also, he stutters sometimes when speaking to me and I just look back at him unblinking. And he asks me sooooo many questions about myself crossing professional small talk. I feel like power dynamics feel different in our interactions like he defers to me?

Scorpio Lilith Juno sun mercury and Venus synastry