31M BLR - House hubby and CF

Before anything else-I'm not looking to be someone's financial burden.

I've done the hustle. Between 21 and 28, I worked 14-hour days, two jobs, seven days a week. The burnout taught me something valuable: I don't want to spend the rest of my life chasing promotions at the cost of actually living. I know what I want from life-and from marriage.

Today, I work as a freelance tutor, and I'd happily continue working part-time. I believe both partners should contribute financially in proportion to what they earn. Homemaking isn't my escape from work-it's the work I genuinely enjoy.

I love cooking, cleaning, meal prepping, organizing, and creating a home that's peaceful, warm, and welcoming. If my partner is building an amazing career, I'd love to be the one making sure home is where she gets to switch off and feel cared for.

Dinner's ready. You relax. I got this.

Outside of work, I'm an ADHD raccoon who collects random facts, dives into rabbit holes, and enjoys conspiracy theories (for entertainment-not because I own a tinfoil hat). Friends describe me as a golden retriever goofball until life gets serious.

One thing worth mentioning: wanting to be a house husband doesn't make me submissive. I'm a hopeless romantic with a dirty mind, high standards, and a naturally mentoring and nurturing/caring side.

I'm looking for someone who's preferably vegetarian(if you're not, I respect that but I just won't partake), childfree, ambitious, affectionate, emotionally expressive, and wants to build a partnership where we both play to our strengths.

If your communication style is 2 messages a day and hoping I keep the conversation going, I'm sorry! I'm a yapper and I'd prefer good conversation initially!

My dream is simple: a home garden, chai on rainy afternoons, separate books and shared silence, spontaneous date nights, mutual princess treatment, and a marriage that feels like a team-not just two people sharing an address.

If ordinary Tuesdays can feel special together, we'll probably get along.