How can I take the lead as a woman during sex and keep my man interested?

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I’m interested in trying a more dominant/female-led dynamic with my partner, but I’m honestly not sure how to take the lead naturally. I don’t want it to feel awkward or forced—I want to feel confident and actually know what I’m doing.

For women who are experienced with being dominant, what do you usually do to take control of the situation? How do you initiate things, use body language, tell your partner what to do, or keep the tension going?

I’m also curious about things like where you generally touch your partner, how you use eye contact, teasing, positioning, tone of voice, giving instructions, etc. Basically, how do you make your partner feel like you’re genuinely in control without constantly having to ask what they want?

If you’re into BDSM/femdom or a female-led dynamic, I’d especially love to hear how you learned to take the lead and what actually worked for you. Any beginner-friendly tips for building confidence and keeping your man engaged would be appreciated.