34 [m4f] #uk

34, married, Essex, and looking for a woman who enjoys good conversation, humour, affection and getting to know someone properly.

I’m not unhappy in my marriage, and I’m not looking to change anyone’s circumstances. I’m simply looking for something that can add a bit of excitement and connection to both our lives.

I’m a chef, so my working life is organised chaos, caffeine and feeding people. 😂 Outside of work I’m into music, films, cooking, getting outdoors and generally having conversations that can go from completely normal to absolutely ridiculous within about five minutes.

What I’m looking for:
Warm and affectionate
Witty and able to have a laugh
Emotionally intelligent
Comfortable being yourself
Someone who actually enjoys chatting

Someone interested in building a genuine connection rather than rushing straight into anything sexual
For me, chemistry starts with conversation. I like the sort of connection where you find yourself looking forward to their messages, checking your phone with a stupid grin and somehow talking for hours without noticing the time.

I’m happy keeping things online if that’s what works, and I’m not looking to rush into meeting. If we eventually click enough that meeting makes sense, great. If not, that’s completely fine too.

UK based would be ideal, although I’m not completely against distance if the connection is there.

I’m open to roughly 25 to45, and I’m completely fine if you have children. I don’t have any myself.

I’m also happy to exchange pictures once we’ve established some basic conversation. Attraction obviously matters, but I’d rather get to know the person first than make the entire interaction about appearances

So thank you for reading if you made it this far.