Fed up of everyone around me

Advice Wanted

Hi, I’m currently 29 weeks pregnant (first baby) and I’m so fed up of everyone around me only caring about the baby. Every conversation I have with someone they have to change it to be about the baby, I haven’t been asked how I am for months now.

Is this a normal feeling? I almost feel guilty for not wanting to talk to people just to avoid being asked about the baby.

But what really irks me is the fact when I’m with my partner he gets asked how he’s coping with me being pregnant. I find it so disrespectful that suddenly I’m just the incubator for the baby and my partner?

Oh and one final question (sorry this is getting so long) how do I stop people from saying my baby will be theirs? I have a friend who looked me dead in the eyes and said “It’s fine because she (the baby) will be mine aswell” Um?? No?? She won’t??

Thank you in advance if anyone comments❤️❤️

Posted Sep 11, 2026, 3:24 PM UTC

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