30 [MF4F] #LakeView - bi couple seeking bi/pan friends (with benefits?)

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We’re putting friendship first at the moment, genuinely open and eager for more platonic connections in the city, but also hoping to eventually make the kind of friends we can flirt with, if there are sparks and we’re all in the mood.

As such, we’re specifically looking for other bi/pan folks who could experience attraction to both of us. Open to other bi couples or individuals.

I’m a service top, but I’m flexible. She’s a switch with a dominant streak, and she’s really flexible.

As for personalities and conversation starters: I’m a tabletop/fantasy lit/poetry nerd, 6’2” and bearded, cat dad (pics available by request) and part-time stoner. She’s a foodie and art lover, engineer and manager, all-around ray of sunshine and delightful conversationalist.

We love hosting, but safety comes first, of course - I’d like to message a bit before exchanging pictures, to exchange pictures before meeting up somewhere for a drink, and to meet up somewhere for a drink before we invite you back to our home. Test results and conversations before anything sexy, of course.

I’m happy to elaborate on anything here in DMs if you see something you like.

DM me/us and introduce yourself! Let’s start with a friendly (rather than immediately sexy) chat.

What do you like to get up to in Chicago? What are you attracted to? What have you been watching/reading lately?

Posted Sep 11, 2026, 3:26 PM UTC

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