37F4M - seeking a long term connection
Looking to meet someone and build a genuine relationship.
A little about me: 37F; I'm 5'0", South Asian; average built and working to become fitter. I am professionally established, financially stable, curious, independent, equal parts outdoorsy and indoorsy. I'm into pickleball lately, trail hiking, crafts, cooking, reading, travel (although prefer non solo travels so looking for a buddy), live comedy/ musicals, and trying new cafes, bars or restaurants. I also have a cat who is like my child. Well travelled but prioritizing to build a life with a partner now.
I am looking for someone closer to my age and who is ready to build something meaningful. No drama, ego or games, someone who is kind, considerate, intelligent, independent minded, financially stable and hopefully within driving distance so we are able to meet up in person. I prefer men who are average to fit built and are into some type of active lifestyle even if they don’t frequent the gym.
If this sounds like you, feel free to DM.
Posted Sep 11, 2026, 3:28 PM UTC