41 [M4F] - Nerdy married dad here looking

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Hey! I’ll start with why I’m on here. I’ve been married for over 15 years. We got married too young and have never been right for each other. Marriage was more of a way of escaping our family situations at the time. We never connected intellectually or in our shared interests. For a long time now she has been more of a dependent than a partner. I take care of most things with our day to day and with our kids. I actually don’t mind for the most part. It just gets lonely. I miss having someone to connect with, share about our days, talk about serious topics or just talk about nothing, someone to laugh with and definitely miss flirting.

A little about me:
- I’m 6’2” with brown hair and eyes. Willing to trade pics.

- I work remote in tech. It gives me the house to myself during the day. I really enjoy my job!

- I’m a night person. My brain wakes up after 10pm.

- I can be sarcastic when I get comfortable and have a dry sense of humor

- I have lots of interests and hobbies but my favorites are reading a good book (always taking recommendations), spending time with my kids and just getting out of the house (traveling, going on a hike, playing sports).

Send me a message if you’re interested!

Posted Sep 11, 2026, 3:29 PM UTC

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