Been flying from Paris to India for a liar.

I am 25 year old F, I met my current boyfriend when I was 21 and he of 29 years. When we met everything felt magical I felt he is the one as I had never felt that way before also I had never really got in a relationship before that.

I would fly between Paris and India Where often to see him as par his postings, I visited many different cities in India….

The problem started two years back when we were doing our first international trip to Bali… it was my birthday so he asked me to go to salon he kept his phone with me which kept buzzing when I saw the message it was written “Hitee Singh ( tCS) 30 f your gift has arrived”I felt very angry as who is she and you never spoke of her to me…. And why would you gift her ??

And the answer were…. It’s her birthday she also sent me few things so I also gave it to her.

BULLSHIT !!!!!!!!!’

After that i went his place to meet I saw there were many books that were sent by her… which really pissed me off.. and I asked him to make me talk to her which he never did…

This new year 2026 I went to see him again this time I decided to check his phone and I saw the girl writing “let’s limit our relationship, I am “emotionally attached to you ect” I asked him again —//make me talk to her if you have nothing to do with her…

To which said you have to trust me

And i accepted it….

I sat quietly.

After that trip I went back to Paris one day I felt if it’s bothering me so much shouldn’t I speak to her directly
And guess what she said / she goes he slept with me twice and he is been sexting me for past 8 months…and fuck around in casual.

But when she was put on the conference she changed her opinion saying she was lying and said all this as a revenge, I don’t know what revenge.. ?? As if I am talking ans sending gifts and nudes to her man though it’s vice- versa…. Well I did abuse her when she said she was lying.

All this makes me feel miserable I wonder if I should continue with the guy
Should I even speak to that girl ?!
Are these woman really mad to sleep around and think it’s cool ? Or is it even ok to lie about sleeping with someone else man ?

I mean it’s insane…..

I would really appreciate your opinion….

Thanks
In advance