I love our time together, but she never texts.

I need some thoughts because I feel mixed. Genuinely I've have an incredible time with her, (we've been going out about a month) I get giddy after our dates and I do really like her. But admittedly I like to text. I understand it's different for everyone, especially busy people, but I like asking about your day or sending reels or even just a good morning or night.

She doesn't, and I have talked with her about it in person. She's incredibly busy in her off time, she just moved apartments, she has an internship, a job and is under the weather so I don't want to hound on her too much. On the other hand, it doesnt feel great texting pretty much exclusively for date plans. (One date every week, a few texts every 3-4 days)

I'm torn and curious where others draw their lines in the sand. I like her enough to want to push through regardless but unsure how to go about this.

Posted Sep 11, 2026, 3:33 PM UTC

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