Meeting for the first time 32F, 27M
Hi all! Looking for some advice, I’ve been talking to a guy I matched with online for 5 months. We’ve been texting, talking on the phone and the chemistry (and sexual) has been so good. We haven’t video chatted, none of us have brought it up. He’s in Paris I’m in NYC and I’m flying out to meet him at the end of the month. I’m not sure if I should have him meet me at the airport or meet me at my hotel. I really like him and I’m just nervous that it won’t go well. I’m also nervous I’m catfishing him lol (I’m not) but I also know my angles well and make sure the pictures I send him are good. I do have acne scars that I’m not sure he’s noticed.
Any advice for meeting for the first time, or dealing with a potential heart break if it doesn’t work?
Posted Sep 11, 2026, 3:33 PM UTC