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45 [M4F] #Phoenix AZ - Just looking to be someone's Cozy BF

NSFWM4F Arizona

Hi,

I've been single since 2022 & I miss having someone that lives in the same City, who I can watch Movies and TV shows with IRL.
I miss having someone to go Thrifting/Record hunting with.
I miss having someone to get meals with, and wander around the Mall with. I miss having someone to take weekend trips around the state with, or someone to road-trip to Vegas or California with.

My love languages are (in order).
Physical Touch
Quality Time
Word of affirmation

Proposal:
If you live within 10-30 miles of Tempe Arizona, and you're single, maybe we can get together online and watch Movies/TV shows together, until you're comfortable enough with me to meetup IRL, and go on some traditional dates (Movies, Dinner, Walks around the Mall, Thrifting, Rollerblading/Skating, Bike rides etc...), and then if you're still comfortable after that, we can forgo the Online Media Consumption, and take turns Cuddling up for Movies/TV shows at each other's home... like a proper, monogamous couple.

Also, I'm not a huge Gamer, but I do have a PC that's powerful enough for us to Game together, and I also have VR equipment... so if you would be more interested in doing that during our "trial period", before we meet IRL, that's also an activity that's on the table.

I'm looking for someone to spend a few hours a day with, 1-3 times a week (or more... but 1-3 would be ideal).
I want someone to cuddle and watch Movies/TV Shows with. I also like to cuddle and listen to music.

I enjoy naps too. (There are other things I enjoy, outside the house, but Having someone to unwind, indoors after I'm off work, and on the weekends is the bare minimum).

I'm childfree, sterile (vasectomy). & I'm looking for childfree.

I am single, and looking for another single person (no married or poly people pls)

Politically, I'm a Bernie Sanders Leftist (not a "Bernie Bro", just a Social-Minded Independent/Democrat).

I'm a T-Shirt and Workpants + Hoody kinda guy.
I work in I.T. (boooring)
I like mostly 80s Synthpop/New-wave, 90s Punk, 90s/2000s Electronica, Surf, Synth-Funk, Vaporwave/Synthwave, Ambient, Indie/Dreampop.

As for Movies, I like Dystopian Sci-Fi, Time Travel, Thriller/Psychological/Drama, and just generally weird/humorous stuff.
(especially from the 80s/90s)

I'm 420 friendly, but prefer not to be around the smoke (So Vapes and Edibles are preferred, if you're going to partake around me).
No Cigarettes please.

I am not religious (raised in a Christian Household, deconstructed after I started living on my own).

I just miss having someone that I can count on to spend time with.
I want to be in a real relationship, with someone that I can spend time with 1-3 times a week, In-Person.
Someone to decompress with after work and on weekends.
Someone that makes the every-day labor involved in staying alive more tolerable, because I know I'll have someone to unwind with later that week.

Anyway, I'm just rambling at this point.
If I haven't already scared you off, and this sounds nice to you... I look forward to your response.

---Cheers I hope to hear from you.

Posted Sep 12, 2026, 2:20 AM UTC · locked

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