24yo men, but now only learned about womens

Chinna vayasula irunthe enakku ennamo therla ponnunganaale innocent thaan nu oru mindset irunthathu.

Ponnunga yaaraiyum yemaaththa maattaanga, yaarum nalla irukka koodathunu nenaikka maattaanga. Over Gaaji(pervert) aah irukka maattaanga, thappuna thappunu avangalukku puriyum...etc

Yen ippadi nenachittu irunthennu enakke therla. Aana ippo yosichu paaththa rompa childish aah irukku.

Last few years la naan paaththa niraya worst characters were womens. Like they're no different from men(including me) we see in this society. Yemaathura ponnunga, thappu avanga melanu therinjum athai yeththukkaama sandaikku varra ponnunga,

Chinna vayasula sila ponnunga antha maari (like casually flashing) vishayam pannuratha paaththirukken. Appuram enakku oru 19,20 age irukkum pothu athu antha vayasula pasanga ponnunganu ellaarum oru curious la panrathu thaannu nenachikkitten.

Enkitta oru vishayatha sollittu appuram naan sollave illainu rendu moonu ponnunga sollirukkaanga (they were older than me) enna ippadi poi solraanganu oru shock. Appuram poraamaikku oru uruvam koduththa eppadi irukkumnu enakku yosichaale oru kizhavi mugam thaan nyaabagathukku varum.

4 years back bus la travel pannum pothu window seat la amma va ukkaara sollittu (u know for some obvious reasons) naan intha side seat la ukkaanthirunthen. Oru women college stop la ella ponnungalum yerunaanga. Sariyaana koottam bus la. Oru ponnu ennoda shoulder la pressing her crouch against my shoulder. I was like koottama irukkurathunaalaya irukkum oru ponnu deliberate aah ippadi panna maattaanu nenachittu irukken. Aana antha ponnu konjam navunthiruntha kooda avaloda crouch won't be against my shoulder, enga rendu perukkum uncomfortable aah irunthirukkaathu. Aana antha ponnu atha seiyala. Antha ponnu ethuvume illaatha maari casual aah avaloda friends kitta pesittu irukka. 20km mela thaandiyum ithu appadiye irukku. Appuram oru stop la ellaam irangittaanga. Athu varaikkum enakku uncomfortable aah thaan irunthathu.

Appuram 2 years back naan mattum ennoda veettula thaniya cook pannittu irukka vendiya situation for 1.5 years. Appo enga ammavukku therinja oruthavanga enkitta summa pesuvaanga paakkum pothu. Oru naal avanga eppadi thaniya irukka, thaniya irukka bayama illaiyanu kettaanga. Naanum enga amma kitta pesum pothu ivanga pesunaanga ippadi kettaanganu casual aah sollum pothu enga amma thideernu tension aagi nee thitti irukka vendiyathu thaana nu kettaanga. Enakku puriyala. Avanga nalla thaana pesuraanga ethukku moonjila adicha maari thitta solranu ketten. Athukku enga amma pecha maaththittaanga. Enakku puriyala. Appuram konja naal kalichu vera perspective la ithu purinjathu.

Aana naan ippo varaikkum nenaikkirathu ennana antha rendu characters um deliberate aah antha ennaththula ethuvum pannala/pesalanu thaan nenaikkiren.

Aana 22 vayasula thaan ponnunga onnum punitha piravikal illainu therinjikkitten. Insert ithaiye ippa thaan kandupidikkireengala template.

Ponnunga naale ippadi thaannu sollala. Gaaji vishayathula ponnungala vida worst mens thaan. Yes all men nu yaaravathu enkitta sonna argue kooda panna maatten onnum sollaama mooditu vanthuduven. Oruvelai yes all men nu avanga sonnathukku kovappattu naan pathilukku oru kelvi la avangala off panratha nenachu appo unnoda appa annan thampiyum appadi thaanaanu kettu athukku avanga aama nu simple aah oru pathil solli enna off panna vaaippirukku.

Moththathulu 22 vayasukku appuram ithai purinjukkittathu enakku ennamo naan oru muttaal maari feel aachu. Athaan inga vanthu olarittu irukken. Ponnunga eppovume oru oppressed place la irukkurathunaala thaan avangalaala maththavangala easy aah purinjikka mudiyutho athanala thaan ponnungalukku athigama empathy irukkonum thonuthu.

After all we are all humans.

Tldr: oru thaththi learned after 22 years about women that they were as jealous as mens, as apathetic as mens.