AITA for dropping my friends when they get boyfriends?

everytime a friend of mine gets into a relationship i start to fucking hate them. if its not the constant talking about stupid stuff i dont care about like snapchat, its crying over some stupid conflict while i have to work minimum wage to pay for my bills. as soon as i see that my friend is liking someone too much i already know its starting. dont expect to talk about anything you want anymore, now its all about a man like all the time and when you do talk about your life theyll be on snapchat sending streaks. now i know its sounding like my friends just suck, but it happens to all of them; even the sweet ones.

exhibit a

my most trusted friend who i lent my car after they had a bad accident for a couple months and who lived with me a bit ended up meeting a guy and not talking to me for a whole semester.

exhibit b

friend who i treated like a sister had taken advantage of the fact i let her and her man sleep over because the buses had stopped working (take an uber). they fucked on my couch and my mom had her door open. also she ditched me for a man who steals large vehicles. and also maybe might of been a pedo?

all this to say these girls were perfectly normal before, its like catfishing or something. they start talking to these bums and they just dont care about you or anything else anymore.

am i the asshole for hating my friends for this? or have i just never been in love and this is all like some collective psychosis.