This sub has single handedly ruined all the confidence I ever had in myself

Before posting myself on here, I thought I was genuinely an attractive young guy. I'm 19 years old, so I'm probably much younger than all of you.

I started posting my photos and asking for advice, and people would straight up call me gay, homosexual and that I'm ugly. Then I posted again today, and I asked if my profile is why people call most profiles on bumble "ugly", and nearly every comment said yes.

If you truly believe I am ugly, why does my real life experience differ so much? What makes me ugly? I'm talking about physically, not the way I'm posing or anything.

Am I delusional if I think I'm attractive? Just please at least answer that question honestly.