37 [T4R] #Pittsburgh - Love may be limitless, but...
... bandwidth, sadly, is not!
It's almost fall, and I find myself bereft of cuties for fun fall dates and flirty chitchat. I'm yearning, folks— maybe even pining!— for one or more light and enjoyable connections with someone communicative. Maybe we could be a positive part of each other's life?
Me: A thoughtful, idealistic, and frequently silly human person. A genderqueer babe in a tall, broad, masc-leaning body (think: white, Stembofied, fuzzy, eminently cuddleable). A practiced polyamorist with a day job and many many hobbies. A parent who has primary custody of their kid, which contributes to that limited bandwidth. A lover of art, and plants, and smooching, and Projects, and stories.
You: Someone peaceful, or colorful, or insightful, or all of the above. Someone who notices, and appreciates, and likes it when others pay attention to their details. Someone who likes texting or phone calls to bridge the gap in between visits. Someone who smiles authentically and is kind and finds joy in their life, and who wants to carve out a place for me in it just like I want to carve out a place for them.
I do live in the suburbs just a few minutes north of Pittsburgh, and value having someone relatively close by so we can actually see each other semi frequently!
If this post is still up, please feel free to reach out, even if it's been a little while. This sub isn't the most active, after all!
Posted Sep 12, 2026, 2:37 AM UTC