Homosexual men, opinions on these comments?

I see a lot where women will make these comments like “oh he’s the mother of the relationship” “he’s the wife” “he’s the pregnant one” “woman of the yeaaaarr”

It’s basically just the idea around married/close homosexual relationships (this usually happens when the man is with his partner from what I’ve seen)with a bunch of mother names put on them? Idk how to explain it or sometimes just whoever they think gives “bottom energy”

Like I was hanging around my two homosexual friends (they’re together) and a lady that we pass by comes up to us for a small talk just to yk be silly and laugh and she just mentions how one of them (the shorter, less bulky, I guess “bottom energy”) is the “MOTHERRR” and how he’s that sassy wife type.

He didn’t seem to enjoy it. So I’m just wondering. I feel like, if I was with my girlfriend (as a woman) and someone told me I’m the husband out of nowhere and didn’t even know us and we both dress the exact same, idk? Like I don’t think I’d cry but it’d be random as well and I don’t think I’d enjoy it?

I’m sure some men like it and don’t mind it, different humors and stuff but does anyone not like it?

Idk I felt kinda icked out, he presents himself very masculine and has mentioned to me before how he hates when people try to “girlie” him and act like he’s not a dude so that comment rubbed me a way? We didn’t mention it, we just like awkwardly laughed it off but