Rant about desi doms

I'm a paki femboi (not girl)

Lately I have been looking for a good dom who can train me around online and use me properly while respecting my limits BUT every guy I see claims to be one when they can't even hold a proper conversation and then they start begging you for nudes (I'm perfectly fine w sending but a dom begging you for something is huge turnoff)

Anyone else feel the same way?