Opinions wanted

I am 16F and i will be referring to the boy i am talking about as Person 2 who is 16M.

In 2024 i started to grow small feelings for person 2 as he went to my school and we had lots of classes together and we were good friends although we drifted apart towards the end or 2024 as he got a girlfriend and she made him block me which i understand.

Later on in around march him and his girlfriend broke up and from then everytime we would be at partys,gatherings anything involving alcohol he would kiss me, touch my ass,be flirty and hold my hand and things like that but it was never anything serious but i liked him but i knew he didn’t like me seriously so i never asked about it.

All throughout 2025 summer he would send me explicit pictures and beg me to sneak out with him to have sex and i would always make up an excuse because i knew that’s all he wanted me for,
although one day we went to the river and he told me he did care about me and love me but i know it it’s just drunk words.

In around end of July 2025 he got a girlfriend and he blocked me again and all contact was off. For about a year we didn’t talk at all in school we had classes together we never ever talked although id always catch him staring.

Then in around may this year his friend was snapping me and person 2 was with his friend who I was snapping and must’ve seen me snapping his friend, i got a notification that person 2 added me on Snapchat i added him back and he asked if he could tell me something and told me that he’s always loved me and he wants to be with me and that he’s in love with me and he has been since he was like 13 and he was asking me to sneak out to “talk” and telling me he wanted to be with me not her and he was too scared to say anything because he was worried what others would think and obviosuly i was shocked but i shut it down because i knew he had a girlfriend and i knew it wasn’t
right, and i assumed he was just drunk again which he was.

The next day he was sober and he asked me to come round to his house which i made an excuse up because i told him he can’t be doing this when he has a girlfriend and then he said okay and just continued to send me explicit pictures for another week until he told me he couldn’t do it to his girlfriend and blocked me again even though he insinuated it.

2 weeks after that almost every night he would add me send me explicit pictures and then block me again and i would say r u just going to act like nothing happened like u didn’t say any of that the other month and he would just act confused so I ignored it and left it that lasted about 2 weeks until it stopped again for another month, then a month after it was my birthday and he added me and started liking all my story’s on Instagram and he was the first one to wish me happy birthday and then i looked and him and his girlfriend had broke up and i asked him about it and he told me what happened.

Anyways about a month after he started messaging my friend to which i just ignored and i stopped messaging him. And then me, person 2 my friend and a load of others went on a night out and i was really drunk and i was asking him why he did any of this and he started kissing me and hugging me as i was crying but it was always when nobody else was around to see and he was telling me again that he loves me and all this.

After that night I haven’t spoke to him properly since. He does send the odd snap sometimes of his face but barely anymore. I just am so confused and I feel like I’m going crazy and I just want to know what other people think. Ask anything and please give opinions !!

Posted Sep 12, 2026, 8:29 AM UTC

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