Feeling concerned about questionable behavior

So I met this guy on Tinder 2 weeks ago. We’ve chatted on the phone, face-timed, went on a coffee date, and text almost daily. I’m not going to lie, I like him. We are also Ig friends. I noticed that he follows a transgender female “influencer” who is still intact and doesn’t bother hiding her boy parts in clothes. He has “liked” some of the transgender’s posts. Is that a red flag? I’m a bit concerned because to me it’s a man liking another man who is playing dress-up posts. He favors a little Asian boy dressing up in his sister’s clothes. I’m feeling very conflicted right now and turned off. This man is in his early 50s, handsome, divorced, has adult children, and accomplished in life. Should I bow out early before catching real feelings??????

Posted Sep 12, 2026, 8:33 AM UTC

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