Married bi dl guys, do you love your wife?

Ik this sounds odd or out of place, just didn't know where to post this question.. I have been wondering about this question because often on hookup apps we find married guys with "bi tendencies" (what I have been told) . How do u feel about having sex with another man while still having a wife? Like, how do u process this? Ik it sounds rude asking, but I wanted to know . Please don't come attack me for my rudeness 😭😭