Stealing your personality
Have you ever observed your stacy friends trying to steal your personality?
For instance, I've had many stacy friends over the years and obviously none stayed. But one thing I've noticed is them copying my interests and funny traits and rebranding them as theirs.
Now, as a conventionally unattractive woman, I'm sure everyone's aware of how your personality gets unnoticed no matter how interesting it is but the same thing is so much popular when a stacy copies it.
Here are a few examples of what I'm talking about:
• Recently I wanted to catch up with a stacy friend and suggested a sushi place. She denied over price and next day showed up at the same place with her bf and posted it online.
• We have different fashion sense but once I posted in a certain type of short dress which wasn't her style. From next day onwards all she wears are those type of clothes now. She also copies my makeup style now.
• Tried to copy my career path and goals but left it midway when got to know I didn't follow through what I said on a whim.
• Also multiple instances where my suggestions didn't cut through in a group setting but the same thing when mentioned by her gets accepted immediately (an educational instance). So I just got termed "dumb" for not contributing while she copies her way through.
These are my observations and it's not just one person, these are multiple friends of mine.
Tbh I don't mind that much but it does sting a lil bit. So wanted to ask has anyone else observed this or is this very common for stacies to steal your personality?
Posted Sep 12, 2026, 8:37 AM UTC