Do I have a crush on my friend or am I experiencing extreme cuteness aggression?

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Okay so i genuinely cannot tell if i have a crush on my friend or if this is just some insane case of cuteness aggression.

I REALLY like her and I think she's SUPER adorable. Sometimes i look at her and my heart kinda just bursts because she's so cute (in a "AHHHHH MY LIL BABY MUST BE PROTECTED" way) like i just wanna squish her face or hug her or SOMETHING.

I also do feel a little weird whenever she mentions having a crush on someone, whether its a guy or a girl. not like insanely jealous or anything but there's definitely a tiny part of me that's like "oh :("

Yesterday I randomly got the urge to kiss her on the lips because she was being so cute while talking about the book she's writing but i was also having MAJOR cuteness aggression at the time. So that's why I'm confused about whether I have a crush or whether this happens when you're having a cuteness aggression because people can get urges to bite/kiss/squeeze cute things without actually being attracted to them.

So help please (and PS I'm not a man, I'm a teenage girl who likes other girls (not a lesbian because I don't like labels))

Posted Sep 12, 2026, 8:38 AM UTC

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