He was seen at a maternity hospital…

venting/ranting

My Ex of 2.5 years dumped me 4 months ago. I was completely shocked and confused. He said he was loosing feelings for me. I was utterly heartbroken 💔

I tried talking to him after but his replies were short and robotic.

On Thursday I was sent photos and video evidence of him sat with a girl and her Mum AT A MATERNITY UNIT where they do scans. The girl is someone from his gym that he told me ‘not to worry about’

For context this man said he NEVER EVER wanted children, he said the world was too evil to bring a child into it. He told me if I ever got pregnant he would ‘boot it out of me’ he was laughing when he said this but never actually said if he was joking. I think he was just exaggerating but trying to get the point across that he never wants kids (he was never violent or anything) he would also joke about things like if I got fat he would leave me.

He has known this girl since February and I can only assume he was having an emotional affair or a physical affair depending on the timings/how many weeks pregnant she is.

He is the sort of guy who admits he is too selfish for children, he loves all his hobbies, he has a lot of debt but still enjoys buying nice things. I cannot fathom why he would all of a sudden want a baby with some chick from the gym who he met in February.

She knew he had a GF as well as they added each other and I was all over his insta. I asked about her but wasn’t too worried as she isn’t super attractive, more like a plain Jane.

I thought I was doing well in my healing but this has really turned my world upside down again 💔

Posted Sep 12, 2026, 8:39 AM UTC

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