Me 23F Him 35M were so destroyed but we love each other

We just broke up again for 7th time if we reconcile I always asked why he keeps doing things that is not good for him, in our 6th break up he got confined in an hospital because he cannot sleep and stressed, now we broke up again I can see that he isn’t well he keeps on drinking and absent as of right now. I know I shouldn’t care it is his own choice and maybe that is his way to cope but it is hurting me he keeps destroying his life 😭 we know it wont work because we two already hurt each other too much, but does it get better? He acts like a girl in a relationship but i don’t want that kind of relationship thats why i let him leave everytime.

What can I do???