Gran Tourismo 7 Nurburgring Race lobby?

Currently in week 3 of online racing and really struggling with the etiquette of most 'racers' and I use that term lightly... I've just entered B class from the dreaded C lobbies and still being penalised for others mistakes ! 4sec Pen for basically straightening someone else out who had lost it how does that work ?

Soooo, I love the ring (5.52 in GTR500 gr2)and sure there's others out there that do and also love a straight laced race in similar specced cars. Is there a lobby to join that anyone knows of or is it a case of setting one up ?

Any info help or guidance would be greatly appreciated