Falling out of love with my boyfriend
My boyfriend and I have been doing long distance for a couple months and I have slowly stopped liking him. He doesn’t put any effort in to show he cares. We will have scheduled times to chat and his phone will die and he won’t answer until the next day or he responds an hour or two after we said we were going to talk. Since we have a time difference I ask him to let me know if he’s going to be late and then he just forgets about me. In addition, he never goes out of his way to do things for me. It would be nice if he sent me things like gifts or he planned dates for us to do on video call but he just stopped. When we planned on doing a video call date ahead of time, he just bailed and said he didn’t have time anymore. I just feel very mistreated. I also have a lot going on in my life right now and I don’t feel like it’s worth it to put the effort in anymore. I can’t keep trying to solve everything. Do you think it’s worth it to even try anymore?
Posted Sep 13, 2026, 6:11 AM UTC