My girlfriend left me but I am terrified I won't find someone with that sense of humor again.

I recently got out of a relationship. My ex was ungrateful, even though I sacrificed 7–8 hours of my own work time every day just to give her quality time and be there for her. In the end, she turned around and told me that she “deserved better.”

She was also highly judgmental. She would call her own family terrible names and look down on my family as well.

she was incredibly cute, especially in the way she talked, and she had an amazing sense of humor. We laughed so much together.

Now, I have this deep fear that if I don’t find these same attractive qualities in my future wife, she might be boring. I keep worrying that I’ll never find that fun, cute connection again.

Has anyone else felt this fear after losing someone special? Did you eventually find someone who was both funny and respectful toward you? feeling like I lost my only chance at being with a girl who has a great sense of humor.